the basics of disqualification.
Barriers build attraction. If you look at romance
novels, romantic movies, even Shakespearean love
stories. There is always a reason why the man and
woman cannot be together.
Barriers also create space for further escalation.
Try telling a woman you want to have sex with her
before kissing her, then tell her you're not going to
have sex with her before trying to kiss her.
Tell me which one works better.
Disqualifiers should always be fixable.
A good example of a disqualifier is telling a
woman you don't date girls you meet in bars.
A bad disqualifier is telling a girl that you are gay
. Disqualifiers have to be something women can break down.
Women should be aware that you're flirting with
them when you use a disqualifier. If the girl actually
thinks you don't like her, you did it wrong.
Don't get sucked into a conversation about the disqualifying
comment. The only exception is when it helps you escalate
the interaction.
It's a good idea to combine disqualifiers with sexually
escalating comments. For example you can tell a girl
" It's too bad I don't know you well enough to tell you,
what I'm thinking right now..."
Disqualifiers are also great for baiting women.
You can disqualify a girl for being " not for real"
or a "player" and watch how quickly they will want to know why.
It's a good idea to smile and touch while you're disqualifying.
Disqualifying is mainly for the attraction
phase and for masking escalations.
Hope that helps you guys,
S
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